(Enter, our edits of the best sex toys for couples and the best sex toys for flying solo.) She worries some women choose cute, tiny devices like bullet vibrators to avoid emasculating men, when they may actually need bigger, more powerful toys to get off.

‘Straight women are told sex toys must be ‘discreet’ to avoid making their partner feel like he, his penis and his fragile masculinity are threatened by a machine,’ asserts Rashmi Malik, who is homosexual. Here, a few non-heterosexuals share their hottest LGBT sex advice. Whether it’s talking about anal play or challenging limiting gender stereotypes, many straight sex lives could be revolutionised by a frank Q&A session with the LGBT players. Queer communities frequently embrace more open, progressive attitudes to sex than the hetero norm.

However, it’s about more than just the physical side of sex. After all, someone who possesses a particular organ – be it a penis or clitoris – will have a good idea on how to operate it for someone’s pleasure, too. Same-sex lovers have a better understanding of how a certain touch or position feels for their partner.